The Magic of Hidden Diamonds

Glass doorknobs sparkling in the sunlight were really hidden diamonds. The crystal multi-level candy dish on the coffee table held other secrets. Delicious smells were wafting from the kitchen.

The rosewood baby grand piano in the corner that would someday be mine, was aching for someone to play it. My grandmother’s house always seemed magical.

I idolized Nanny and loved her deeply. She was my first model of a powerful, independent woman, and she had a tremendous influence on me and my beliefs.

When Nanny was fifteen years old, she was such an accomplished pianist she earned a full scholarship to study with a famous maestro in Belgium. Her father feared for her safety and refused to let her go. There were lots of tears, but her father’s rule was the law.

Instead of becoming a concert pianist, Nanny became a professional piano teacher, picked a husband, had my dad, and taught piano for fifty years. She worked with what she had and created a full and rewarding life, even if it wasn’t the life of her dreams. I often hear Nanny’s voice in my head as a guiding light.

Today’s Question:

Who was your most influential role model? How did they impact who you are today and what is most important to you?

But Here’s the Twist . . .

Who considers YOU a role model? At times, we are fortunate to find out and sometimes we just don’t know.

My mom modeled kindness and compassion, my high school English teacher modeled intellect and style, and my first female boss modeled collaborative leadership. My clients awe and inspire me with their passion and ambition for their work and the way they support those around them.

I have worked hard to be a role model for my children (and something must have worked because they are all three business owners!)

Now What?

If your role models are still around, don’t miss the opportunity to tell them how they have influenced you. It is often the greatest compliment you can pay someone and the chance to do so is frequently lost. In many ways, your role models are the real hidden diamonds!

Start the new year with some magic of your own, by thanking your role models.

I wish you and your family a healthy, Happy New Year!

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Who was your most influential role model? How did they impact who you are today and what is most important to you?

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